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Communication Tip: Use “I” statements not “You” statements.☝🏾 . You have to remember that you’re married to (or are in a relationship with) a grown man and talking to him like you’re crazy or always communicating in a frustrated, disrespectful way won’t get you the response you want.🤷🏽‍♀️ . I was guilty of talking to Derek in a way that would put him on defense because I always found him at fault for something (you, you, you)! But we’re grown, grown! And I had to start acting accordingly, especially in how I talked to him, and that’s where taming my tongue came from!🤭 . Yes, your feelings DO matter, BUT how you communicate those feelings matters more! And we’re all up in our feelings talking about this month’s challenge in my private membership community.🥴 . It’s the last day to enroll and my next live training is #tameyourtongue Tuesday!  I’m teaching strategies on how to talk to your man in a way that will get his attention so he’ll listen.🙌🏾 . Want in? DM “TALK” and I’ll send you the enrollment link so you can start improving your communication in your relationship today!🙌🏾 . #thewifecoach #lifewithlb #tameyourtongue #happywifelife #marriagerocks #marriageworks #wegotogether #lbtaughtme #marriagecoach #blackmarriages #marriages #communication #talktome #marriagegoals #relationshipcoach
One of the most challenging things to do (even for me) is to talk with a leveled-head when you are upset and all up in your feelings!😐 . Yes, your feelings DO matter, BUT how you communicate those feelings matters more! And that’s one training/lesson I’ll be teaching in my private membership community: how to communicate your feelings when you’re frustrated.☝🏾 . Our next bi-weekly #tameyourtongue training is Tuesday and I don’t want you to miss it! The ladies are talking about their feelings right now, sharing their communication challenges, and I’m ready to introduce you to the community!🙌🏾 . DM “TALK” to get the special link to save $50 on your monthly membership NOW!📥 . #thewifecoach #lifewithlb #tameyourtongue #happywifelife #marriagerocks #marriageworks #wegotogether #lbtaughtme #blackmarriages #marriageadvice
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Ouch!😩 It’s Tame Your Tongue Tuesday and I know this probably didn’t sit too well with someone! But when you understand the power you have in knowing what to say (and not to say) and even when to say it, there will be an immediate shift in your entire relationship!🙌🏾 . That shift creates more happiness, peace, understanding, patience and so much more! Could this be the ONE thing holding you back from experiencing more effective communication with your man?!☝🏾 . Well, this month in my private community, it’s all about understanding why you feel the way you do! And right now we’re talking about the last feeling we had when our men either did something or said something (mine was annoyance).🙄 . Enrollment closed last month but I’m opening the door right now for 10 more ladies to join the community of women in relationships who are ready to improve the way they talk to their man. If you want one of the open spots, DM or text “TALK” and I’ll send you the link to enroll! [Closes again on Friday]💕 . #thewifecoach #tameyourtongue #happywifelife #marriagerocks #marriageworks #shhh #lifewithlb #lbtaughtme #marriagecoach #blackmarriages #wifemarriage #marriageadvice #talktome #husbandmaterial #marriagegoals #prayingwife
The Misconceptions.🤯 A tamed tongue doesn’t make you weak and it doesn’t mean you can’t speak. I would never want a wife to feel that her voice doesn’t matter and shouldn’t be heard in her marriage!☝🏾 . But you have to watch what you’re saying (and thinking). Every thought or feeling I had, I spoke it or acted on it, which caused avoidable problems between me and Derek. And I had to check myself in this area because every word I spoke could cause irreparable damage and destroy my relationship with him.🙏🏾 . See, marriage has matured me in this area and has taught me that a tamed tongue is about self-discipline. It’s being slow to speak and quick to hear. It’s knowing what to say, how to say it, and when to say it, and this actually makes you powerful beyond measure.🙌🏾 . Let’s talk about it. What are your challenges when it comes to  taming your tongue? Share below OR shoot me a DM or text.📲 . (Oh, and this was the topic for Week 2 of my masterclass! Don’t want to miss the next one in October? DM “READY” to be added to my wait list)💕 . . #thewifecoach #lifewithlb #marriagecoach #happywifelife #marriageworks  #marriagerocks #lbtaughtme #tameyourtongue
You can coast through this thing called marriage but I’m not sure how satisfying that will be for you and the hubby!🥴 . Marriage requires growth. It requires you pausing from time to time to assess what’s working (and what’s not working) and putting a plan in action to do new things that may be different from what you did in the past!💕 . Naturally, I was looking at ways that my hubby could grow in our marriage but then got convicted and asked myself the same question!🤦🏾‍♀️ . What’s ONE area that you need to grow in (in order for your marriage/relationship to grow?)👇🏾 . #lifewithlb #tameyourtongue #marriageworks #marriagerocks #happywifelife #marriagegoals #lbtaughtme #thewifecoach #blackmarriages #marriages #marriagecoach #communicationskills #communicate #wifematerial #wifelife #husbandmaterial #submission
Best Table Topics speaker this week congratulations Kenneth, well done 👌 #tabletopicscontest #impromptuspeech #speakwithoutpreparation #tameyourtongue #speakwithconfidence #orangecounty #toastmasters
IF @JESTER.JUSTIN AND I KEEP THIS UP, THEY MIGHT NOT LET US BACK IN THIS SKATEPARK😷🤢🤮⁣ ⁣ SOUND UP🎚⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #goodmorning #instagram #instagramdaily #iphone #iphonexr #session #havefuneveryday  #sendit #dowhatyoulove #siouxfalls #southdakota #bmxbikes #bmx #ourbmx #subrosabrand #cxxii #tameyourtongue #cultcrew #lmp #vans #vansbmx66
I’m posting this solely for me. I have got to get my mouth and my attitude in check. #controlyourself #tameyourtongue #wordshavepower #speaklife #beautyinsideandout #beautylover #avonrep #newavon #linkinbio
Last night we had a “meeting in the ladies room!” I had the absolute honor of being one of the guest speakers alongside @thedenyque @nicolamelhado for @nicolemclarencampbell’s monthly LIVE session with her #goalaccelerator Club Members!🙌🏾 . The Topic: Becoming a Winning Wife in Your Marriage!💕 . We shared our individual truths about this wife life; we laughed and learned from each other but ONE curse word stirred up a debate: SUBMISSION!🤭 . In marriage wives are told or commanded to “submit” to their husbands but it has such a negative connotation, negative energy and (in some cases) has been abused which makes the modern-day or forward-thinking woman totally against the thought of doing it!💁🏽‍♀️ . I talked about this very topic in my masterclass in week 4 and outlined what submission is NOT so we can appreciate it for what it is! But there’s still a lot of misunderstanding or confusion about this term and how it should (or shouldn’t) show up in your marriage.🙏🏾 . So let’s talk about it. How do you handle “submission” in your marriage or do you not submit at all?! Share your thoughts below! (No judgement zone!)👇🏾 . #lifewithlb #tameyourtongue #marriageworks #marriagerocks #happywifelife #marriagegoals #lbtaughtme #thewifecoach #blackmarriages #marriages #marriagecoach #communicationskills #communicate #wifematerial #wifelife #husbandmaterial #submission
The tongue is a powerful little instrument that can do so much good, and yet so much harm. It can unite or divide: ‘By our speech we can ruin the world, turn harmony to chaos, throw mud on a reputation, send the whole world up in smoke and go up in smoke with it, smoke right from the pit of hell’  Relationships, even marriages, often end because of things that have been said or not said. People lose their jobs, their reputation, start arguments or even wars by their words. Harsh, unjust words have destructive power: ‘With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people, who have been made in God's likeness’ To curse means to speak evil. To bless means to speak well. Don’t speak negatively. Learn to control the tongue so that you speak words of blessing to people and about people. Speak words of life. Your words have tremendous power for connection. You can bring healing, encouragement and edification. Your words can change a person’s day or even their life.  #tongue #tameyourtongue #bekind #letlovelead #gym #fitmom #fitness
Now that’s a word!🙌🏾 I had to send myself a love offering for speaking the truth on this one!🙏🏾 . If our words are seeds, then your marriage/relationship will be a reflection of what you’ve been sowing. It’s #tameyourtongue Tuesday, and I want you to think about how you may intentionally (or unintentionally) speak not-so-pleasant things (aka death) to your man and/or relationship and marriage. . What’s ONE area you know you need to improve on when it comes to simply how you talk to your man?!👇🏾 . (And tonight, I’ll be going live in my private community to host our monthly Real Talk Q & A session! My community is all about becoming better communicators in our relationships and if you missed enrollment, be sure to join my email list to know when I’m opening it back up!💌) .  #lifewithlb #tameyourtongue #marriageworks #marriagerocks #happywifelife #marriagegoals #lbtaughtme #thewifecoach #blackmarriages #marriages #marriagecoach #communicationskills #communicate #wifematerial #husbandmaterial
In a world where we are living amongst #periloustimes; more evil is reported in the news than the #gooddeeds; the bad "seems" to outweigh the good; I see more people give up than fight because their in despair and feel #itssohard hard to #keepgoing, to #keepbelieving, and to #keeppraying just a little while longer. I'm not exempt from my fair share of #trialsandtribulations, #testtotestimony, and #messtomessage moments; not to mention #winsandlosses #setbacksandcomebacks, #hurtandpain; but THIS ONE THING I do know for sure, I'm in this world, but not of it. Therefore, I am not consumed; mindful and prayerful, but NOT consumed. Even when things hit like a double-triple punch, like as in recently, recent, I STILL stand on #myfaith and #trustgod, even when I can't "trace" Him because I KNOW that #thistooshallpass, #troubledontlastalways, and He is working #behindthescenes with a PROVEN track record! . . . No it isn't always easy, but that is why the word says, "Those who keep their minds on me, I'll keep them in perfect peace; Lean NOT to your own understanding; Be Strong and Courageous...I will never leave, fail, or forsake you; I am your shepherd, you shall not want; Be ye renewed by the transforming of your mind;" just typing that brought about even more of that #peace that surpasses ALL understanding. Did you feel that too?🙋🏽‍♀️ . . . There's is POWER in your words; therefore, it's VITALLY important that while you #waitwell, you #tameyourtongue. You don't want to speak blessings and curses from the same place. Now, I'm not saying what you're going through isn't real; however, I am saying #flipthescript, #speaklike, #believebigger, #takeaction everyday, and #growthroughwhatyougothrough, and watch everything fall into place. #trustgodstiming . . #mundanetomagnificent #maximizethemoments
Why do I have to be so aware of situatioooons😩 if only I never cared. Then I’d definitely have this laugh 500% I can’t lie 😂 I wanted aaaall the smoke BUT... gotta keep it PG, child friendly 😌  #tameyourtongue #awareness
Keeping it simple today! It’s that easy if you are reading this your alive! Thank the lord for waking you, thank him for restoration, kindness, love, compassion, wisdom, water, food, a loved one! I mean the list goes on above all thank him for continuously LOVING YOU NO MATTER YOUR FAULTS! No one can ever adore you the way Jesus does! : : : : Tag someone! #sanbernardino #lostandfoundministries #inlandempire #christ #christians #jesussaves #jesuslover #jesuschrist #believe #bethelight #bethechurch #loveconquers #tameyourtongue #speakgodsword #thursdayquotes #thursday #thursdaymotivation
Best speaker for the night Stella This is only her second speech, but she rocks!! 💯 #bestspeakers #toastmasters_club #sherocks #publicspeakingclass #tameyourtongue #lagunahills
Last call for enrollment y’all!⏰ . One of the most challenging things to do (even for me) is to talk with a leveled-head when you are upset and all up in your feelings!😐 . Yes, your feelings DO matter, BUT how you communicate those feelings matters more! And that’s one training/lesson I’ll be teaching in my private membership community: how to communicate your feelings when you’re frustrated.☝🏾 . My first monthly #tameyourtongue challenge kicks off tomorrow and I don’t want to start without you! The ladies are getting acquainted and sharing their communication challenges and I’m ready to introduce you to the community!🙌🏾 . DM “TALK” to get the special link to save $50 on your monthly membership!📥 . #thewifecoach #lifewithlb #tameyourtongue #happywifelife #marriagerocks #marriageworks #wegotogether #lbtaughtme #blackmarriages #marriageadvice
When people actions hurt us, we automatically assume that their character is jacked up. NOW, sometimes it is but not all the time. Character flaws are sometimes disguised as unhealed wounds. The only way to understand someone else's, is to understand yours first. If the offense pops in and taking THEIR actions personally. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💋 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #atlantaspeaker #selfloveambassador #blackbeauty #blackwivesexperience #blacklove #strongwomen #blackbeauty #womensupportingwomen #womanhood #wivesclub #melaningbeauty #wifelife #wifecoach #melaninbeauty #wifelife #wifecoach #emotionalhealing #emotionalhealthmatters #truthtuesday #throwbackthursday #lifestylecoach #atlantaspeaker #selloveambassador #ayeshacurry #selflovemovement #tameyourtongue #lawofattaction #consciouslove #mindfulness
📜 Honor God by the words you speak! 📜 . . . - Proverbs 13:3 . . . Thanks to You Verse Bible App! Thank You, Lord! . .  #bibleverse #tameyourtongue #honorgod #igdaily #igers #godislove #sheisahavah #godisahavah #ahavah #proverbs13v3 #proverbs #bible #dailyprayer #youverse #bibleapp #youversebibleapp #godlyinspiration #likes4like #follow4follow

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